Disclosing a personal secret is always a daunting experience. So today I want to share some tips with you that might make the process a little bit easier. Whatever the secret, the tips still apply, so read on.
For some people home isn’t a safe haven. I know. In the course of my professional life, I encountered and cared for many women, men and children who experienced abuse in their homes. Their stories came to mind, earlier today, as I meditated and took in the beauty of my surroundings. I was watching five goldfinches bickering over access to the feeder and boom, just like that I connected to some stored away memories.
Why write about it? I’m writing because we need to talk about it. We all agree that the added stressors brought on by this pandemic are bringing out our best and worst selves and everything in between.
What can we do about it?
It would be wise to keep ourselves in check
- Are you…
- … growing impatient and irritable?
- … snapping at people? Getting short-fused?
- … becoming rude?
- … isolating, feeling unfit for human interactions?
We need to protect ourselves and our kids
- Are you …
- … walking on egg shells?
- … hyper alert, constantly trying to anticipate someone else’s needs to help keep the peace?
- … feeling triggered?
- Sometimes highly stressful situations bring back unresolved past experiences and make it more difficult to cope with the current situation.
- … worried about your safety or the safety of your kids?
- … worried about how your kids are coping?
- … wishing you had someone else to think with?
We need to be on the look out for people who need help
- Are you …
- … disengaging from the people around you, worried about getting in the middle of something?
- … trying to convince yourself that something not right is none of your business?
Help is available!
It is important to restore the balance; level the scale. Imagine on one side of this scale all the stuff which contributes to raising the stress level and on the other side of that scale all which helps us cope and thrive.
We can positively affect the balance in two ways. We can work to decrease some of what is in the stress side and we can increase what is in the coping side.
As an Nurse Practitioner, I have the knowledge and experience to help you with decreasing your stress and improving your resilience:
- Together we can figure out a way to safety.
- Together we can equip you to deal with those in your life who are not coping well.
- Together we can affect what is in your scale and restore some form of equilibrium.
Become your best self, not your worst! It is possible.
Worried about finding some privacy?
We can talk over via a video conferencing platform or over the phone. Whether you are sitting in your car or walking around the block, reach out! We’ll figure out “the how” together.
Are you anticipating many barriers? Have you got many questions? Book a free introduction session to see if we can work them out together.
photo credit Lucas VanOort
I don’t know about you but I’m ready to shift from surviving to thriving.
In the face of danger, our first response is often to run for our lives or to freeze. After the initial shock, we fight, we get busy dealing with the basic necessities of life. We function in survival mode. After a beat or two, or more, we then get into working the problem. Depending on our training and our past experience with traumatic events we go through the steps with varying speed and efficiency.
“Work the problem,” that’s one of my mantras these days. Repeating it to myself, keeps me from getting overwhelmed. Another good expression to remember is “two heads are better than one.” You may already know that I love puzzles, all kinds of puzzles. I’d like to help you with yours.
Too much stress can mess with your mental and physical health. Be brave! Be wise! Don’t wait! Get help!
Hire a nurse practitioner, a compassionate health puzzle solver. I’m here to help you get back on an even keel.
Need another reason? Looking after yourself well, will enable you to better look after those you love. It is the most worthwhile investment!
Currently, I’m using a health video conferencing platform. You can talk with me from the comfort of your home.
Most people manage to tolerate high levels of stress for a little while but what happens when a little while turns into longer and then longer still?
Do you know how to keep your mind sharp and your body resilient while dealing with these highly stressful times? Do you know enough strategies to mitigate the effects of stress?
Before take off, travellers on airplanes are reminded that they should put on their own oxygen masks first and then help those requiring assistance. Making sure you remain at your best physically and mentally is not only wise, it is the best way of ensuring that you will be able to continue looking after your loved ones.
My psychologist and my physician have my back. Who’s got yours? I encourage you to get the help you need to look after yourself!
I’m using a health video conferencing platform. You can talk with me from the comfort of your home. You’ve got questions about how this works? Ask for a free introduction session.
Nathalie Héloïse Graveline, Nurse Practitioner